I Miss the Baby by Irma G Prosser reminds readers that everyone goes through the grieving process differently. Grieving for a miscarried baby is a tragic experience that a child may respond to in many different ways. The child may want to be hugged, or they may act out of anger. Then there’s the chance that they may not show much of a reaction at all. It is important to know that children express how they feel differently and that their response to losing a loved one, including a miscarried baby, is natural and normal.
… an insightful picture book that enlightens the reader on how children may respond to the loss of a baby. The illustrations by Emma Arellano are colorful images that show the different responses children may have as they grieve. The sensitive way that Prosser explains the various reactions a child could have after the death of a baby they may or may not have met will help children and their parents understand that
there is nothing wrong with the way they respond. I love how the author leaves a note for parents at the end of the story to let them know that the child’s reaction to the tragedy is natural. This book will help children process loss and help parents understand that grief comes in many forms.”
“Children, even the little ones, experience pregnancy loss along with parents. This book normalizes the varied emotions a child may feel after the loss of a sibling through miscarriage. It can be challenging for parents to know how to talk to their children about the loss. I Miss the Baby conveys the message that children are not alone in their experience. It provides a starting point from which parents and other support persons can discuss this confusing experience with impacted children.”
“I appreciate how the story shows the different ways the little girl continues to be part of grandma’s journey with cancer, how she gives her space, how she stays connected with letters or games or makeup. I think those were great examples of different ways we continue to do life with the people we love who are managing cancer and its treatments.”